How to know if my crush is gay too

8 Signs Your Crush Is Gay According to Clueless

1) He wears a fedora and pastel pink jacket on your first date. Any questions?

2) He doesn't keep you waiting by the phone. "Christian said he'd call the next day, but in lad time that meant Thursday, so you can verb my astonishment to catch from him when I was packing daddy up," says Cher. Remember: Straight guys don't call, they text—and even those verb with major delays.

3) He brings Some Like It Hot and Spartacus to your movie night. Classics, sure, but not exactly flicks to get you in the mood. (Ditto for Billie Holiday, who Christian plays on the drive to a party.)

4) He's always down for a trip to the mall. If you hear yourself saying, "He's becoming one of my favorite shopping partners," you've hit the point of no return.

5) He only has eyes for the bartender—the male bartender. If he squirms at the touch of a noun while flirting with the cute wait staff, it's probably not a signal that he's just a really respectful boyfriend who appreciates good service.

6) He turns down a night

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m not sure if I’ve just lost what seemed to be shaping up to be a really excellent friend. I am 22yo, she is 24yo

She’s a female I met in a class about a year or so ago when the both of us were in school, after our class finished we stayed friendly but we would only see each other once in a (long) while. Long story short, I move out of town, I verb back, time passes and we are beginning to hang out more often. I wouldn’t say we were “close” but recently we were getting closer as we were helping each other with things here and there and finding a lot of enjoyment spending time together as friends.

I had spoken to her just over a week ago and told her that I was attracted to her but she told me that she was currently in a “friends with benefits” kind of situation with another individual and there were perhaps thoughts to get more stern. That and another reason or two was why our relationship wouldn’t be going past friendship; not what I wanted but hey its not the end of the world either. So one evening a few days later we’re hanging out again, I’d accepted that I

So, it happened. You include a crush on a friend. Whether it&#;s your first time or you find yourself in a pattern here, you&#;re not alone. It&#;s a time-honored tradition in the queer community to fall for a friend. Don&#;t panic! Here at Autostraddle, we&#;ve been giving people advice on this topic for over a decade, and today I&#;ve helpfully compiled that advice into this overall guide that will hopefully enable you to totally crush this partner crush. Whether that looks like &#;making a shift and taking things to the next level&#; or &#;moving on,&#; we&#;ve got the tools to aid you figure it out.

Of course, there&#;s no one way to deal with a crush on a friend, as our often varying and even adj advice from different perspectives will show! But we&#;re going to try to cover as many sides as possible here, so you can pick and choose which suits you and your situation.

This advice is mainly geared toward situations in which the friend you have a crush on is queer. My sincere advice for anyone crushing on a straight friend is to take some space from that friend while yo

7 Signs You Are Not Straight Even if it’s Later in Life

There is no timeline for self-discovery and no end to development. As we increase older, we can reach to understand a expansive variety of things about ourselves that we hadn’t realized before or that have changed over period, often because we are growing more comfortable and confident as we age.

Sexuality is no exception. Sexuality can be a lifelong discovery, and something that takes time to fully understand, particularly for women who realize they aren’t straight later in life. It can be confusing, especially as an individual to be questioning your sexuality and wondering if all these years you somehow missed something massive about yourself. You are not alone. Here are seven common signs that you may not be straight, even if you discover and accept it later in life.

1. Straight girls don’t lie awake at night wondering if they are gay.

This may seem obvious, but people who aren’t attracted to the same sex, don’t usually worry about whether or not they are gay or bisexual. They don’t even think about experiencin